APPEARANCES AS PERSPECTIVE

Young female celebrities will always be weighed, based on their weight. Yes, all the opinion people hold about a woman, will have an inference about her appearance. Any female who is shown funky and fun loving appears to be the center of attraction, be it in any magazine, serials or movies and nevertheless she looks chic and slim.But when the past heroine categories come into the picture, most of them were ladies and not ‘girls’.

                             

                          As mentioned earlier, the perspective of people differs. So in this case it differs from those greenery long shots to techie machinery shots. Media has been making the audience believe all these days, that a size 0 girl always wins over a curvy or plumpy female.

                         Of course, no girl will remain dancing on her toes, singing in the sweet 16 of her teenage. Every girl will eventually become a woman. It’s a fact. But their age which reflects in their appearance, does reflect on their life too, meaning profession or career in the case of cine artistes. Those who have lost their young image can be seen very less in the silver screen, but definitely not as the same old, heart throb. But in the meantime, any act of decline in their appearance will be shot, recorded and displayed the next moment in the data highway. And that’s the sad part, which might bring disgrace to their image. But only, very few women agree with their natural body image while others feel that this cooked up perception that slim equals beauty, bothers them a lot.

                    Exceptions may include artistes like Aishwarya Rai, Vidhya Balan. They have the same fame in the industry till date. But though a woman takes many measures to ‘show’ that she is fit, her face would reveal her age. Face is the index of the age too. But the time which shows them as old and aged, has once showed them spic and span. Those days should never be forgotten. Whatever it may be, a woman is always a woman, at heart.

Life IS what It HAS become

                             ‘Life is what it has become.’ This phrase can be accepted, depending on the phase of life in which one IS. Our lives are designed in such a way that we harvest the fruit, with much of satisfaction and the most important of all, the reason for the destiny. Receiving the fruit of hard work will make people forget
their trouble and toil. Accepting such hardships, will make a person a good sailor.
                         But what are these hardships and toils for? After all for a better future. Future cannot
be predicted. Past cannot be questioned. But the past can be a lesson and the future can be believed,
rather being predicted. Grumbling with a ‘why’ to the past will not fetch anything, while a ‘what’ can
make a difference. So that the mistakes and stepping stones can be rectified. But the magic lies in
identifying ‘the mistake.’ Often people tend to blame other elements or cases for their failure. Here
they fail to spot the exact mistake that is still prevailing. This is dangerous. Faults mistaken are more
dangerous than faults unidentified.
                            Every individual must make peace with his/her own past. Past can be used as a reference kit, to check over our improvement from the past to the present, where repetition of mistakes can be avoided and can proceed doing new mistakes.Of course, mistakes are the secret of success. Life will lose
its next minute surprise if it is sweet from the beginning, it does need spices. Failures add spice to life.
 

                     When life comes to a certain point and appears as if it fails to move, one should keep up

the spirit. So do not give up, the beginning is always the hardest. Constant spirit is all one would need, to
touch the finish line. How a deep breath would caress the toiled lungs, with a respiration of satisfaction
and happiness! That’s the reward. So ‘Life IS what it HAS become,’ because of us. We can make our
lives beautiful with blessings from above. This is God given life for us, which will definitely land us in the
meadows of green pastures, with ample of joyous streams, where the human race would be blessed
with eternal bliss.